Anyone want to give me some advice?

Don't read too much into it. My best friend in the world is a guy, and that's crap we did all the time. I had it SOOOO bad for him, but he never liked me like that, and while it hurt, it turned out okay. We've been friends since 8th grade (I'm in college now), and I'm happy that he has taken on more of a brotherly role in my life. This way, I never have to worry about things getting too complicated or our friendship being lost if we had broken up. He is becoming friends with my boyfriend (and that boyfriend is going to become my fiance in the fall when he's done working out of state this summer) and honestly, I wouldn't want it any other way. I know you're probably like positive that it would work, and it's possible that it would. But be careful not to risk a friendship.