My fiance put his retirement investments in his cousins name in the event of his death. Should It bother me?

He's trying to be slick. If you guys get a divorce you will take half this is a way to protect his ets. Why go through the hel of that when he cld just get a prenup...unless you already dismissed that idea. Well if I were you and loved him and wanted to marry him I wld be independent and make sure I had my own bank account, 401k retirement plan and etc because it sounds like hes not interested in your welfare if you guys were to separate for whatever reason. If you have kids get life ins in kids name only and make all your ets go to your kids if something should happen. You have to look out for yourself...apparently.